In order to sustain reconciliation, both sides have to constantly transform into better forms of themselves by doing the difficult work.

You have to value your worth and simultaneously value the worth of others.

You have been forgiven. Now are you doing the important work of living renewed?

Living renewed means discontinuing the former conduct that was destroying you.

You have to give up those feel good yet poisonous habits.

No more self-destruction. No more choosing familiar paths that encourage self-sabotage.